Would you date someone with kids?

I wouldn't go out with someone who has kids, i prefer someone who doesn't have kids and that kind of commitments in their life.

 

i did, but not for long..i wasnt ready for a family commitment

 

A big NO for me.

You're right, no extra bagage + dealing with exes.

I also want my own child, of my own flesh and blood.
Another reason would be that I want to have someone only for myself, so not someone who got used already...

 

oh yea why not, tell them to leave the kid home and watch tv

 

1 is no problem. 2 is worries, esp if they have different fathers. Any more than that is somebody else's problem

 

depends on the person. if they are mature with a drama free life and the kids father is mature and pays his child support with no crazy behavior, then sure I will.

 

Speaking from personal experience.....IT IS NOT EASY AT ALL! But if you give it a chance....you may find the love of your life.

 

I'd say it depends on how old the kids are. If your relationship becomes serious with him/her and their kid(s) have known you since they were young, they'd accept you and you'd probably have a better relationship with their kid(s). The same can't be said for older kids sometimes, though.

 

Nah. Stay single and keep looking.

 

yeah why not. i mean, thats not a problem. kids or no kids same thing to me.

 

nope you will never be the father so dont bother try

 

Yes, I would. I can train all of children to become djs and they can dj for me.

 

It doesn't matter to me. When i got married i got 2 kids also it was a packidge deal i never been so blessed

 

no baggage

 

depends on the person and situation. But if I had two comparable women to choose to date, and one of them had a kid and the other didn't, i would probably go with the one with no kids...

 

Personally i grew up with a step dad and it was great so i wouldnt see this being a problem

 

I think this will also depend on which age you are and the other person.
I could imagine that someone above the 40 will take it as a package-deal, but someone e.g. 30 year wouldn't try it I think.
And also, how many children

 

I see nothing wrong with dating someone with kids. as long as shes reliable and has the qualities you want i say go for it

 

I think it's okay if the kids do you like you. And everyone of the adults have a good friendship with each other. You need to be able to trust the person you're with and know he or she won't go back to their ex or their ex won't take advantage of that relationship. Only then i would date someone with kids. It can get really toxic it otherwise for everyone involved. I've seen it happen.

 

There is wrong with dating someone with a children, providing that the kids have the same father or mother. Personally, I would not, but I may change my mind if I meet my soulmate.