Change? LOL Listen don't get married to change anyone, otherwise you will be very disappointed. Marry becasue you love the person for who they are when you marry them, not for what you hope they will be in time.
You should live with a person for no less than two years so that you and they could see each others bad habits and figure out if you can live with it.
If haven't lived with them for more than a year I'd recommend you do, before deciding to get married "See me and live with me ah two different thing"
I would marry a girl but not to change them I would leave them just the way they are because I love them so much
i dont believe in marriage. in my opinion it doesnt add anything to a relationship get married to the person who gives you the best vibes and can level with you. otherwise dont do it
Don't get married, just live home together. 3 times I have been taken to the damn cleaners. Living together means you have a chance of actually keeping your house if you separate.
Marriage is overrated and people do it because of pressure from family/society. But I'm lucky in that me and my wife get along very well. Also I hate how expensive weddings are!!!
I think it does change the other person because it brings out things you never knew about yourself, and them.
Getting Married can change the person but old habits are hard to change on both side. Plus you develop other habits..bad ones and good ones.
I agree with most, live with the other person first for a few years to get to know each other's habits, if you can adjust, sure.
Pick your poison wisely and be fully accountable for your decision- nah balme nobody if it doest work out!
After marriage, she will change. After she moves in she will change. After having a baby, she will change. So will you. In my opinion that's not a bad thing though. Keep it moving.
